How to develop healthy relationships

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Imagine you are planting a seed. If you want it to grow into a flower, you take care of it and give it everything it needs.

Now think about the people who are with you in times of trouble. Those who support you and with whom you enjoy spending time. Such relationships are like seeds, we must take care of them so that they not only grow, but also flourish.

I thank my God every time I remember you.
Philippians 1:3

In the Bible we learn that Paul started a church in Philippi. While he lived with the church, people were generous and kind to him, sharing the Gospel with him. But even after Paul went on his way, the church in Philippi continued to support him.

When Paul was put in prison, he wrote them a letter. He could have written to them about his problems, but instead he prayed for his friends and encouraged them to continue living lives that glorified the Lord despite hardships and persecution. Paul was aware of the sacrifices they made, so he thanked and supported them.

We can also strengthen our relationships with people who are important to us by showing gratitude.

We can pray for them, support them with a kind word, or serve them despite our busy schedule. We can set things aside to listen carefully, or express gratitude for something that would otherwise go unnoticed.

God gave us the desire to be in relationships with the people around us. This means that just like Paul and the Philippians, we have the opportunity to support each other and follow the Lord together. To do this, we need to take care of our relationships, and purposefully protect them and keep them healthy. And one of the best ways to do that is to stop and thank the people who help and support us. Let’s find time today to thank God for the people who have made a great contribution to our lives and pray for them.