Palm Disappointment, Sunday Sermon for April 5, 2026

Олександр Колтуков • 2 days назад

Пальмове розчарування | Олександр Колтуков | 05.04.2026

The nature of human frustration

At the heart of the events of Palm Sunday, when Jerusalem met Christ as a triumphant, is a complex mechanism of collective human expectations. This historical moment serves as the starting point for a deep analysis of disappointment, a universal experience that is an integral part of human existence. There is no life path where a person does not face the bitterness of unfulfilled: we feel it through broken promises, professional failures, the collapse of plans or a crisis in relationships with those closest to us.

However, the most difficult to perceive is the spiritual dimension of this feeling. A deep internal conflict often arises when sincere hopes, supported by inner faith, do not find an immediate response in reality. A literal understanding of the spiritual principles of “seeking and finding” sometimes comes into sharp conflict with reality, where answers do not come in the time frames we define.

In the context of modern challenges, this burden is felt especially acutely. The long war, the lack of visible results in the negotiations and personal tragedies related to the loss of loved ones pose difficult questions to everyone about the justice and expediency of waiting. It is this discrepancy between our internal “deadlines” and the real course of events that becomes the foundation for a deep disappointment in life, which requires not just consolation, but a fundamental rethinking of the relationship with time and a higher will.

The historical context of Palm Sunday

The title of the sermon “Palm Disappointment” indicates the paradox of this holiday. People joyfully met Christ, waved palm branches and spread clothes under the donkey’s feet. The reason for such excitement was the recent miracle – the resurrection of Lazarus.

“The next day, a large number of people, having heard that Jesus was going to Jerusalem, came to the feast… The people who were with him when he called Lazarus from the grave and raised him from the dead testified.”
John 12:12-13, 17-18

The crowd expected a Messiah of such power to establish his rule as King of Israel and liberate them from Roman occupation. While these expectations were not sinful or bad (nor was our desire for an end to war), they did not come true.

The first truth: God does not act according to our expectations

The main lesson of this story: God does not act according to our expectations. Even if our plans seem to be the best and kindest for us and those around us, God is not obligated to act according to them. His plans and ways are always more perfect and higher than ours.

The second truth: God does not act according to our terms

The second key thesis concerns time: The Lord does not act on our terms. Setting deadlines for God inevitably leads to disappointment. We are used to living in a fast-paced world where we demand results “here and now”, but God does not invest in our time frames.

This is vividly illustrated by the story of the illness and death of Lazarus. Sisters Martha and Mary sent messengers to Jesus, believing that He would be able to heal their brother. Their expectations were absolutely correct. However, Jesus deliberately delayed.

“Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died… Jesus tells her: Your brother will rise again”.
John 11:20-21, 23-25

When Jesus came, Lazarus had been dead for four days. Martha was so tired of being disappointed that she did not even believe in the miracle of the Resurrection for her brother at that moment. The pastor emphasizes that a series of disappointments can lead us to stop praying and believing altogether.

Personal testimony of the pastor

An example of deep disappointment is the personal story of Alexander Koltukov and his wife Yulia. Having experienced the tragedy of losing their child, they were faced with the fact that, despite all their prayers and hopes, a miracle did not happen. However, instead of searching for reasons “why this happened,” another important realization came: going through such pain and despair without spiritual support would have been much more difficult. Over time, the family’s life resumed, and they were blessed with the birth of three sons.

The third truth: God does not act on our requests

The third important truth: God does not act according to our requests. Sometimes God says no, even to seemingly good requests. We often don’t realize that fulfilling our desire can bring us more temptation or harm.

As an example, the story of the demon-possessed man of Gadarina, from whom Jesus cast out a legion of demons, is given.

“And when He got into the boat, he who had been demon-possessed begged Him that he might be with Him. However, Jesus did not permit him, but said to him, “Go home to your friends, and tell them what great things the Lord has done for you, and how He has had compassion on you.” And he departed and began to proclaim in Decapolis all that Jesus had done for him..”
Mark 5:18-20 NKJV

This man had his fervent request to become a disciple of Christ rejected, which was certainly a disappointment. But his obedience and preaching led many people to God in the Decapolis.

Historical consequences of God’s “no”

The pastor cites an impressive historical fact: when in 70 AD. Roman troops led by Titus surrounded and later destroyed Jerusalem, Christians, remembering the prophecy of Jesus, fled to the mountains. They found shelter in the Decapolis, where there was already a church. This church was formed thanks to the preaching of a former exorcist. God’s “no” for one person became salvation for thousands of believers decades later.

Summary: Transforming disappointment into new hope

The fundamental conclusion of these reflections is the assertion that God’s “no” is inherently much more weighty and healing for a person than any favorable “yes” from the immediate environment. Even when the reasons for God’s refusals or His silence remain incomprehensible to the human mind, trust in a higher will becomes the only way to overcome the inner crisis.
The key idea is to learn to see behind every experience of human disappointment the hidden prospect of the Resurrection. This is not just a concept, but a life-affirming principle: where a person sees the final collapse of hopes, God is preparing a new beginning. The phenomenon of God’s timing often contradicts human impatience, but even when it seems that help is delayed, it comes precisely at the moment when it is able to revive the most hopeless aspirations that already seemed buried forever.

The way to Calvary was a conscious choice, made against the fickleness of the crowd, which in an instant passes from rapturous shouts of “Hosanna” to frustrated demands for a crucifixion. This willingness to pass through human rejection for the sake of a higher purpose has become a guarantee that despite all the storms and disappointments of life, the possibility of spiritual rebirth and life remains open to everyone.