God's Glory Church

“Pray for those who wrong you.” — Luke 6:28

For many years, John created problems in the church. He was quick-tempered, demanding and often rude. He constantly complained that he was poorly “served” and that the management and voluntary assistants did not cope with their duties. To be honest, it wasn’t easy to love him.

So when it became known that John was diagnosed with cancer, it was difficult for me to pray for him. His harsh words and unpleasant character were constantly mentioned. But, remembering Christ’s teaching, I offered a short prayer for John every day. A few days later, I found that I began to mention his negative qualities less often. He must be very hurt and lonely now, I thought.

Prayer, I have learned, not only reveals to God what we feel about others, but also allows Him to intervene and put a heavenly perspective into our thoughts. The Holy Spirit is slowly but surely changing our hearts. It is not surprising that the call of the Lord Jesus to love one’s enemies is connected with the call to prayer: “Pray for those who wrong you” (Lk. 6:28).

I have to admit that even today, when I think of John, I have mixed feelings. But with the help of the Holy Spirit, I am learning to look at him with the eyes of God and to see in him a person who needs to be forgiven and loved.

Why is it important to pray for “difficult” people? What can you ask God for them?

Loving God, You know what I think about those who offend me. Fill my heart with mercy and compassion to love them and pray for them.

Author: Leslie Koh