Rebuke with love

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“And the Lord said to Cain, ‘Why are you angry?'” – Genesis 4:6

He did everything well. There was only one problem. Everyone knew about her, but he was a very good worker, so they turned a blind eye to his anger. No one really contradicted him. For this reason, many people suffered during his years of work. And as a result, his career, which could have become remarkable, ended prematurely. But he was a believer! If only I had once dared to rebuke him!

In the book of Genesis, God left a perfect example of what it means to resist sin with love. “Cain offered God a sacrifice from the fruit of the earth” (Gen. 4:3). But God made it clear that He did not like this gift. Cain became very angry (v. 5) or, as other translations say, he was very upset. Then God pointed out to the son of Adam his sin and urged him to seek what is good and right. Unfortunately, Cain ignored the rebuke and committed the first murder on earth (v. 8).

We cannot force other people to give up sin. However, we can face them in the spirit of meekness, we can speak the truth to them with love, so that together we can become more like “Him, and He is the Head, the Christ” (Eph. 4:15). Since God has given us the ability to hear, we will receive words of truth from others.

Why is it important for us to rebuke one another? How do you accept unpleasant, but necessary reproaches?

Heavenly Father, give me the courage to lovingly rebuke others and gratefully accept the unpleasant truth about myself.

Author: Tom Felten