God's Glory Church

“Bear with one another, and forgive.” — Colossians 3:13

Eighty years in marriage! On May 31, 2021, Pat and Ruth, my husband’s great-grandparents, celebrated this milestone. After a chance meeting in 1941, when Ruth was still in college, the young people fell in love so much that they married the day after graduation. Pat and Ruth believe that God brought them together and guided them all these years.

Reflecting on their eight decades of marriage, Pat and Ruth agree that one of the main aspects of their strong relationship is their willingness to forgive. In a healthy relationship, everyone understands that we all constantly need forgiveness for the pain we cause each other: whether it’s because of an unkind word, or because of a broken promise or task.

The Apostle Paul, seeking to help Christians live in unity, speaks of the important role of forgiveness. After urging readers to choose “sincere mercy, kindness, humility, meekness, long-suffering” (Col. 3:12), Paul adds: “Forgive… if anyone has a complaint against someone” (v. 13). And what is most important – all relationships should be in love (v. 14).

A relationship that reflects the traits described by the apostle Paul is a blessing. May God help us all to develop healthy relationships characterized by love and forgiveness.

How did you experience healing when you forgave or were forgiven? How do forgiveness and accountability help strengthen relationships?

Lord Jesus, help me to forgive others as You have forgiven me.

Author: Lisa Samra