God's Glory Church

“Be an example for the faithful in word, in life, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity!” — 1 Timothy 4:12

In 2011, after ten years of childlessness, my wife and I decided to move to another country. Although it was exciting to move, I had to leave the radio job I loved. Feeling devastated, I asked my friend Liam for advice.

“I don’t know what my calling is anymore,” I told him sadly.

– There are no options here on the radio? he asked. I said no.

– And how is the family?

Surprised by such a change of subject, I replied that Merin and I were fine. We struggled with the absence of children, but we became closer to each other.

“Consecration is the core of the Gospel,” Liam replied with a smile. “The world needs to see marriages like yours! You may not realize it, but you make more of an impact by who you are than by what you do.”

When Timothy also began to feel sad because of difficulties in the ministry, the apostle Paul did not set high goals for him in terms of career growth. Instead, he urged him to live a life pleasing to God and set an example for people with his words, behavior, love, faith and purity (1 Tim. 4:12-13, 15). Timothy could best influence others by his faithfulness.

People tend to measure the significance of their lives by success at work, while the most important thing is character. I forgot about it. But a word of truth, a good deed, and faithfulness in marriage can do a great deal. Through them God’s grace touches this world.

Who has influenced your life? What qualities did these people have? How can you set an example of faithfulness?

God, help me to remember that my work is not as important as my character. Please make me more like You.

Author: Sheridan Voysey