God's Glory Church

“Hope for too long is an ailment for the heart, and a wish that is fulfilled is a tree of life.” — Proverbs 13:12

When I moved to England, my usual American Thanksgiving turned into just another Thursday in November. Although I had a holiday next weekend, I wanted to be with my family and friends. However, these desires were not unique to me. We all want to be with our loved ones on special occasions and holidays. And even if we celebrate something, we may still miss someone, or we may pray for reconciliation in the family.

During this period, I was helped by prayers and meditation on biblical wisdom, including one of King Solomon’s proverbs: “Hope too long is a disease of the heart, but a desire that is fulfilled is a tree of life” (Prov. 13:12). In this parable, through which Solomon expressed his wisdom, he pointed to the effect of “long hope.” Delaying something much desired can lead to anger and pain. If the wish is fulfilled, it is like a tree of life that allows us to feel renewed.

Some of our wishes and hopes may come true and come true some time later, and some only in eternity. Whatever our desire is, we can entrust it to God, knowing that He loves us. And one day we will be reunited with our loved ones in a joint celebration and in joint thanksgiving to the Lord (see Rev. 19:6-9).

When have you felt exhausted because of not fulfilling a desire? How has God helped you in your time of need?

God, You fulfill my deepest desires. I surrender my desires and hopes to You, and I ask You to realize them in Your wisdom and love.

Author: Amy Buescher